The Victim Triangle

The victim triangle* is a very common structure in families. Either you were born into this or it doesn’t exist in your family. If you were, it will follow you wherever you go in life, until you become aware of it and heal it. In the victim triangle there is at...

Self-sabotage

Why do we sabotage ourselves instead of doing what’s good for us? It seems counter-productive, right? To understand this, we need to talk about the comfort zone. That’s all the things we know – the kind of reality we are used to. So if you grew up in...

The fear of failure

So last week I wrote about the fear of change. This week I’m going to write about another biggy… – the fear of failure! It is so sad what this fear creates in our lives. It makes us play small and pretend like we’re not important, we...