Doing versus being

When we grow up in a family where we don’t experience unconditional love, chanses are that we feel we have to achieve/perform/do something to get the attention we need. That creates a confusion around love, and we start thinking that attention is love. We become...

Fear of failure

Do you ever struggle with feeling good enough…? So many people think that perfectionism has to do with how organised you or your home are, but that has very little to do with it. Perfectionism is fear of failure and criticism, and is what you develop when you...

Self-sabotage

#Self-sabotage There are sooo many ways we sabotage ourselves! And there are also a number of reasons why we do this:We can be afraid to shine because others might be jealous, or it might feel dangerous to shine because of what happened in a previous lifetime.*We can...

The fear of failure

So last week I wrote about the fear of change. This week I’m going to write about another biggy… – the fear of failure! It is so sad what this fear creates in our lives. It makes us play small and pretend like we’re not important, we...